The Story of Me

我是个矛盾体

 

可以很安静，也可以很疯狂

害怕孤独，也享受孤独

 

自认为很乖，但其实很叛逆

很勇敢，却也很脆弱

 

。。。。。。

是狮子，也是小猫。。。

 

深夜时的无聊遐想。。。哈~

 

那个。。。

我想知道为什么我现在不爱写blog了？？

为什么以前在学校里一丁点的鸡毛蒜皮都会让我写得很欢？？

这到底是为什么捏？？？

人还是应该物质一些世俗一些

这样活起来反而会比较简单轻松

什么梦想

什么完美

如果全都统统抛开

我也就不会那么难过了。。。

There is always something that I should remember for the rest of my life.

                                                ——Benjamin Button

 

Just finished seeing this movie again... Got deeply impressed and touched, about the meaning of life and time it elaborates. In most circumstances,  we met, and we left... for some reason that only known to ourselves. What lasts forever is always those that we could only see by our memory rather than our eyes. However the process of life is different, our destination is the same, whether to born to be old or to be young. What really matters is just what u've seen in this world and what u've got from this world, whether ugly or beautiful, whether pleased or painful, they are worthy of being rememberd.

Just like those people Benjamin Button met in his life:

"Some people, were born to sit by a river

Some get struck by lightning

Some have an ear for music

Some are artists

Some swim..."

 

"You could be mad as a mad dog at the way things went.
you can swear and curse the fates,
but when it comes to the end,
you have to let go."

你可以像疯狗那样对周围的一切愤愤不平
你可以诅咒命运
但是等到最后一刻到来之时
你还得平静的放手而去。

——Captin Mike's dream is to be an artist. Though he spent his whole life on the towboat, he never stopped his dream, by tatoos on his body...

 

For what it's worth, it's never too late, or in my case, too early, to be whoever you want to be.
There's no time limit, stop whenever you want.
You can change or stay the same.
There's no rules to this thing.
We can make the best or the worst of it.
I hope you make the best of it.
I hope you see things that startle you.
I hope you feel things you never felt before.
I hope you meet people with a different point of view.
I hope you live a life you're proud of.
If you find that you are not,
I hope you have the strength to start all over again.
“一件事无论太晚或者对于我来说太早，都不会阻拦你成为你想成为的那个人，这个过程没有时间的期限，只要你想，随时都可以开始，要改变或者保留原状都无所谓，做事本不应该有所束缚，我们可以办好这件事却也可以把它搞砸，但我希望最终你能成为你想成为的人。我希望你有时能驻足于这个令你感到惊叹的世界，体会你从未有过的感觉。我希望你能见到其他与你观点不同的人们。我希望你能有一个值得自豪的人生。如果你想象的生活不一样，我希望你能有勇气重新启程。”

——Benjamin Button's wish to his daughter Caroline. It's the most sad, while exhilarating lines in this movie. I will remember it by heart.

 

You never know what's coming for you！

你永远也不清楚... 接下来会发生什么

——Benjamin's "Mom" told him when he was an "old" boy. That's exactly why life is worthy of living.

It isn't how well you play, it's how you feel about what you're playing... We're meant to lose the people we love. How else would we know how important they are to us.

"无所谓你弹奏得怎样，重要的是你弹琴时的感受……我们命中注定要失去我们所爱之人，不然我们怎么知道他们在我们生命中有多重要?"

——The old woman who taught Benjamin to play the piano. Somethings are meant to be, just like the clock is meant not to stop running...

 

What are you thinking?
I was thinking how nothing lasts.
And what a shame that is.
Some things last.
-Goodnight, Daisy.
-Goodnight, Benjamin.

你在想什么呢？
我在想没有什么东西能持续到永远的
... 我们也不例外
有些东西就是会持续到永远的
- 晚安，黛西
- 晚安，本杰明

——Benjamin and Daisy. They met, they missed, they loved, they left... Fortunately, their love lasts forever into the deepest night...

Attention Pls!!!

 爱米和爱米粒将于除夕晚上10点在福山路小学门口举行烟火派对！希望住在附近的小学，初中同学都来加入我们！当然，如果高中，大学，乃至现在的同事也有兴趣来和我们一起疯的话，我们将无比热烈欢迎！！！

一起分享好吃的糖果和美丽的烟火，度过这个五彩的难忘的除夕吧！！！

 

PS：希望能够自带烟火，不管是手上甩的，地上跑的，还是天上窜的，我们都欢迎哈！！！

还有7个小时就是09年啦~

 

希望爸爸妈妈奶奶和我，还有身边的好朋友们明年能够健健康康，每天都能快快乐乐的！

 

希望自己工作上能顺顺利利的，生活上能有更多属于自己的时间，做自己喜欢的事情！

 

这些愿望应该不算贪心吧。。。新年老人请快快approve!!!

 

 

 

今天和客户吃饭聊天，无意中猜中了一个同事的星座，于是被当作神童从客户到同事一个个猜过来，还真一猜一个准，！连我自己也觉得好神奇。。。我不禁又想到大学里的某件事，让我觉得自己也许还真有些特异功能呢（哈哈，小得意~）其实我从来只会在心里猜猜别人想什么，是什么样的人，却从不敢肯定自己猜的一定是真的。。。以前曾看过一篇关于读心术的文章，说我们总以为自己有多大的把握能猜到别人心里的想法，而其实科学研究表明大多数情况下我们只猜对了百分之三十多。。。当时觉得这个数字好打击人啊，但是仔细想想却也合情合理，每个人都是不一样的个体，我们总是用自己的思维方式来为别人的行为或举止做出解释，得出的结果自然会有偏差咯~

还是得感叹一下，星座这个东西还真有点道理~~~

PS：谢谢很多好朋友关心我的身体健康。看到很多不常见面的同学的关心，心里很感动。希望大家新的一年都能健康平安，生活幸福！